Do you feel that you are being led, rather than leading?
If so, this could be an indication that fear is running the show.
Sometimes we’re aware of it, but often we’re not. There are so many fears that can impact on how we feel, without us knowing.
Fear of failure, fear of getting it wrong, fear of looking silly or incompetent. These are all quite common.
But so is a fear of being stuck, a fear of not reaching our potential or getting left behind.
Fear in that sense can be helpful. Because it highlights what will happen if we don’t act. In other words, we’ll stay exactly where we are. And that can be the scariest thought of all.
Fear is there to teach us something
So don’t be scared of fear. Fear can be good. Use it to motivate and move yourself. Use it to make positive changes towards the life you want. Not the life you feel stuck in.
As Susan Jeffers famously wrote, “Feel the fear and do it anyway!”
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